IS HE THE ONE?

5 TRAITS A GUY SHOULD HAVE BEFORE YOU GET SERIOUS

Hi girls! Read this from COSMOPOLITAN MAY 2009 ISSUE in the section of "LOVE & LUST: IS HE FOR KEEPS?". I find it sOoO true that's it's worth sharing with you girls.

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1. HE HAS A SUNNY OUTLOOK
Having a sense of humor helps you weather the rough patches that you’ll inevitably encounter together. It’s also crucial that the guy you’re seeing can make you laugh. It shows that he’s able to let loose and doesn’t take things too seriously.

2. HE KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS
Any guy you’re serious about should be able to articulate his long-term goals and passions. He can’t ally himself with you until he has a sense of how he envisions his life in the future and how you fit in. “If a man has no idea what he wants to be when he grows up, then it will be impossible for him to commit to you”.

3. HE’S OPEN TO CHANGING FOR YOU
It’s true you may not be able to change a man, but a guy should want to change for you. “If he’s not willing to expand his interests to mesh with yours, you’re going to outpace him…it’s likely you’ll grow restless, and the relationship will become stale.”

4. HE’S STILL A LITTLE MYSTERIOUS
The beginning of a relationship is always super-exciting, because you’re just getting to know each other. But even after the newness wears off, it’s essential that a man keeps you guessing. Relating every detail of his life is a relationship-killing TMI.

5. HE’S RESPONSIBLE WITH MONEY
THE LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST! Besides giving you a heads-up about money-related conflicts you might encounter in the future (one of the topics long-term couples argue about most), how guy handles cash reveals a lot about his character. A man who doesn’t track his money shows lack of patience and self-control.